Not like the TV shows. But kind of.
Little mementos of the lives lived: birthday cards with their signatures, a Starbucks sleeve with a note on it, a broken He Stopped Loving Her Today 45lp, a frog figurine on a shelf, obituaries cut out of the newspaper, those little cards from the funeral home, ashes in container, a shirt that still smells like my mom.
I finally burned my journals with all of their negativity. So that’s a start.
First birthday cards, bands from his hospital birth, love letters from my husband, notes of encouragement from friends, rocks from various trips, old 35mm film that needs to be developed, camcorder tapes that surely contain the voices of the now-dead.
How do you purge these things? And why do I hoard them?
I’m closer than ever to getting rid of this stuff, but as I go through the stuff, I just don’t know how to throw it away.